“Whenever I do something good, I see my mother in it.” A young man said these words to me in a very matter-of-fact way. As Mother’s Day nears, I can’t help but think about all mothers and because I am so enamored with the Italian culture, Italian mothers. They are the pillar of the family and I’ve heard it said, the strongest Italian institution is Mamma. Italian mothers have a way of giving selfless, warm, affectionate love with a passion that makes their kids feel like they are the most important thing in the world.
With the rebirth of spring, the ancient Romans paid tribute to their Gods of fertility. Centuries ago, the festival, Matronalia, was dedicated to Juno, goddess of childbirth and motherhood. Children gave gifts to their mothers on this day. In 1957 the Italian Mother’s Day, La Festa della Mamma, was adopted and is celebrated on the second Sunday of May. That said, it is part of Italian family life every day of the year and especially Sundays. For generations, Italian mothers have handed down time-honored recipes made with love and passion. Every Sunday, Italian mothers have warmly brought their families together for an abundant family-style meal. Often times it is the Nonna (grandmother) who hosts the meal and all of the children and grandchildren are present. There is never any question that everyone will be there. This is a tradition in the Italian culture and one that is revered in honor of mamma. At these family gatherings, food and family are the cornerstones. An Italian friend once told me that the amount of love an Italian has for you is directly proportional to the amount of food they prepare and gently, or at times forcefully nudge you to consume!
Food can be utilized as an art form and Italian mothers exemplify this with the passion and love they put into their dishes. I have heard it said from Italians that food made with love really tastes different. Mothers in Italy annually can tomato sauce made at the peak tomato season to have on hand throughout the year. My friend and colleague, Marinella, traditionally does this and every time she visits her daughter who is studying in Oxford, England, she takes a good supply and puts in her pantry. Her daughter then enjoys mother’s “love in a jar” and tomato sauce that tastes different from any other.
“MAMMA MIA” – this is one of the most common and versatile expressions in the Italian language. Among many others, it can mean “My God!” “How great!!” “Oh No!” “Incredible!” So many emotions can be and are conveyed in these two simple words and of course one of them is”Mamma.”
I want to wish a very happy Mother’s Day to all mothers and especially to my own mother and my daughter as she celebrates her first Mother’s Day. I believe that much of the good in most human beings comes from the mother - may we all strive to see our mothers whenever we do something good.
Salute, Ann












